Do any one of these concerns sound familiar to you?- All the good ones are taken
- I'm no spring chicken
- I can't stand the singles dating scene
- Who wants a single parent with young children?
- I'm afraid I've been single too long
- I found my soul mate once. Can I really have that again?
There are a wide variety of concerns and complaints about being single no matter what situation you find yourself in. Whether you're wanting to find love, divorced, single and not yet married or widowed, if you're looking to share you life in a meaningful way, looking for relationship advice in the world of what the mass markets show us is a pitiful way to go. What the media, talk shows and daytime or evening dramas show us is more in the world of the unattainable. Relying on what the media shows us keeps many of us out of touch with our real world issues and how to solve our real world relationship desires. It's so easy to be lured by the glamor of 'Sex and the City' or any one of the hospital dramas where sex, lust and love are collapsed into some bizarre format of "real life". This is rarely the way to find healthy love relationships. Of course, I know most of us watch that stuff for distraction from our busy lives. So when it comes to finding the solutions to the single trap, what have you come up with? Speed Dating, Singles Meetups, the bar scene, online singles communities, chats and dating sites. That's all good. I trust some of that has been working for you. But if it's not, ( and I assume you're reading this because you're not happy with your present outcomes) then I have some very good news for you. I hope you'll understand, I offer this advice on how to find love because I was miserably single, with plenty of failed relationships in my past. Finding Love is not a numbers gameYou don't have to keep dating every warm body that seems 'nice enough'. You can attract your ideal mate. You truly can have the love of your dreams. How do I know that? Because I did exactly that. If you've had your share of failed relationships. Not to worry, I've been there too and I'm here to tell you it can be different. The truth is, when you take stock, you'll realize that the one common denominator in all these relationships is you! You can put all that nonsense of repetitive patterns in relationship failure in the past. I can show you how. When you read my best selling book "Create the Love of Your Dreams" you'll get access to all the tools I used. You do not have to settle and you no longer need to accept loneliness as your 'fate.' You were designed to live a fulfilling life on every level. I can show you how. You can have it all in love and in life! |
